This is my own Definition of FAKE and REAL friend.
Do you have Friends? How many are FAKE? How many are REAL? For me, I can say that number of true friends vary than those STUPID ones.
FAKE FRIEND:
This is the type of friend that makes effort to be your friend, but not for GOOD INTENTIONS. When you're with this kind of person, he shows a lot of kindness, concerns, advises, love, care etc. But despite of all the kindness and the like. They're are the one destroying you or should I say "back stabber" . This kind of person is very contagious. You'll never know, he/she keeps telling bad things about you. Then, when you confort him/her, he'll keep on denying what he/she says to everyone. Meaning, YOU'LL APPEAR BE THE BAD ONE! This kind of person is so so bad. So sweeties, beware of this person/s. Know them first before you trust them.
REAL FRIEND:
This is the type of friend who accept you for WHO YOU ARE. A friend who really cares about you. A friend that can tell everything in front of you, OFFENSIVE in a way but SWEET to hear. They can argue with you in such a nice way. Yes, MISUNDERSTANDING exist but they try to fix it with no hurt feelings. A friend that doesn't keep GRUDGES. UNDERSTANDING, SHOULDER TO CRY ON,TRUSTWORTHY,HONEST AND FRANK. For me, those are the MOST important characteristics of a real friend. When your worlds seem so dark, expect him/her to be with you. Your problem becomes his/her problem too.You're so BLESSED if you're with this person. He/she is the one who will fight and protect you from those STUPID people. You should have this friend.
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So what? you had a lot of friends? but how many of them are REAL??? Your attitudes reflects the type of friends you have. BETTER KNOW YOURSELF FIRST BEFORE YOU JUDGE ANYBODY. I can say that I'm so blessed because i know who am i and i know who my real friends are. I'm so happy that i met them. It will take a lot of efforts to know them one by one. Though you're friends since elementary, high school or college, you can't still say that they're REAL FRIENDS. Simply select who to be trusted.
My 4 things to keep for LIFE:
-FAMILY
-FRIENDS
-BEAUTY
-GOOD MANNERS
> That's all I can say. I hope everybody can relate . :) This is my own opinion. this is based on my own observations.
"Friendship is a strong and habitual inclination in two persons to promote the good and happiness of one another."-- Eustace Budgell (1711)
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